well thats no fun if you cant remember it

k6nhbs Yeah, it is clear now !... From the very beginning I did not understand where was the connection with the title !!...

TJebEr I really enjoy the article.Much thanks again. Fantastic.

Thats so funny lol

And in the way that all young girls dream of.

oh shit! nice

thts not funny. if u cant even remember wht happened and u lost ur virginity. :( im sry..

awe i'm sorry you don't remember. that sucks.

thats called rape.

thats so sad....

you sure you didn't take any roofies? and i'm pretty sure you should call the police.

QUINCY-BOSTON

ummm......that's not even remotely funny.

ummm......that's not even remotely funny.

hahahaha! High-five!

this is the first one i read where i actually felt really bad

thats rape

well that's sad :-(

That's harsh. &considered rape.

welcome to your slutty life. Congratulations.

fuck you. this girl was RAPED you peice of shit. If a girl is raped nowadays, shes now considered a slut?? You sound so unbelievably stupid. thats like those idiots who say if a girl gets raped while wearing revealing clothing, she was asking for it. its makes no sense. if youre a girl, im dissapointed in you and your judgemental-ness. if youre a guy youre an old school narrow minded sexist pig.

I would get the police involved this is pretty serious.

this is so not funny :(

something pretty similar happened to me. i'm sorry and i hope you'll be able to handle it better than i did.

Damn. ):

dang that sucks... and like other ppl said that is pretty much rape...

thats rape i hope this text wasn't a joke .. i feel really bad go to the cops.

Thats awful. You should call the police asap

awe *hug* I hope you feel okay? (thats why drinking -at least to much- is BAD)

welcome to sluthood

I'm sorry... it happens =-/ that would have been me too one night if I hadn't been on my period and had a tampon in with a string that actually broke and wouldn't come out...

omg that SUCKS im sorry

I LOL'd ferr number 28 but that sucks like wow, id cry

shit life

Plan B, and go to the cops... it's rape... then get the HIV precautionary drugs

this is the only one that upsets me =/

you wanted it

Wow, that's horrible. You should contact a rape crisis center and get an examination done. Maybe they drew on you without actually having sex with you, but if you were passed out, it was legally rape... You should contact someone.

thats considered rape my dear

yoo, you were just raped!

Damn quincy/boston 2 crazy cities Hope ur ok

yeah that happened to me 3 days before my 17th birthday. never told anyone. and its scary to think about sometimes...i hope youre ok sweetheart. bc its kinda hard to get over it when youre having sex with othrs. i still get flashbacks sometimes mid- hoook up :'(

the people who are calling her a slut are being dicks. she might've been given roofies..

lol fail.

lol that is fucked.

Um that's rape, n that shit stays in your head forever.all u jerks who think that's funny, think bout if that happened too ur sister, or daughter. That's horrible!!! Rape changes a person.

Again with the rape screamers, just because some bitch says she lost her virginity and cant remember it probably because she was drinking with the person or persons she was fucking, doesn't mean she was raped. The bitches that keep saying this shit need to get fucking fixed in the head or put on meds, you've obviously had this problem and need to talk to a doctor. Stupid cunts.

^wrong, if you have sex with someone who's too drunk to consent, it's legally considered rape. she was raped whether she went along with it willingly or not.

You're absolutely right. Women are not capable of having even one drink and making sound decisions.

yeah, it certainly sounds like she just had one drink.

wow, so much for a memorable first time eh

Just hope to god the pregnancy tests comes back negative haha

#44 - apparently you're not familiar with the law. i hope that someone takes the same attitude that you have right now, and applies it to your sister, mother, cousin, or female friends and you realize how stupidly chauvinistic your viewpoint really is.

HAHAHAHA! Well, at least you got it out of the way, now you can perfect the art of being a drunk slut!

Ive dated girls who have been LEGIT raped (not just wasted and ashamed), and you know what I found out that is really f***ed up? Each and everyone of them were FREAKS in bed! And to add to my confusion, most of them liked it really rough.... like getting their ass slaped and hair pulled HARD! One even wanted me to choke her a little when she was getting close!! And I am not turned on by being rough at all! Uhm, they had my complete sympathy, but then Im confused? This horrible thing happens to you and u get off by reinacting it in bed? WTF?!? NO JOKE, IM SERIOUS!

This behavior is an after-effect of the rape trauma. Sometimes (in part because of messages like yours and those above that imply a woman is somehow to blame for her attack) a woman who has been raped will feel shame and, as a coping mechanism, will tell herself she deserved what happened by later acting in such a way that will in her mind cement the idea that she "liked" what she experienced. What you have personally experienced with rape victims is the psychological impact of rape -- and certainly NOT at all an indicator that they enjoyed or deserved the crime that was perpetrated against them. Rape is a crime and an act of control or sadism on the part of the rapist - it has nothing to do with what a woman is wearing or how she is behaving (as evidenced by the number of rapes that occur even when a woman is by all standards modestly dressed and simply carrying out every day tasks). In ANY AND ALL situations, if a woman says NO, it is rape. And, BY LAW, if a woman is intoxicated then she is unable to consent, and it is rape -- legal fact. If society would stop taking the easy way out and stop blaming the woman for her attack, more women will feel comfortable coming forward to report their attackers, will not internalize misplaced blame, and will seek therapy for the psychological impact of rape.

So upsetting! Hope you're alright

and your dignity

OMG that is fucking WIN lmfao but its yer own fault at the end of the day ;D

all i can think of to say is i am sorry that is terrible

It's not rape just because she can't remember what happened. It's only rape if she said no/was drugged/forced. Otherwise, it's called being SHIT FACED. It sucks that she lost her virginity that way, but it's not rape. If it was I highly doubt she's post it here.

Your fucking retarded, were you droped you your head as a child?

well, if this is true..you were raped!!!

yea nothing says fun quite like date rape

its rape do any of you understand the damn laws??? and thats a horrible first timee, i'm sorry

how is it rape?? not been funny she could have been proper pissed and whoever was with her could been the same and she at the time might have wanted it??

awww this is just sad

did no one else consider this a joke? Like a really sarcastic comment? Or am I that stupid?

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

Its rape you dumbasses. if they do NOT consent to it and its unwanted, its rape. doesnt matter if she was drunk and seemed to be asking for it while she was passed out. she obviously didnt want it. i seriously hope that didnt happen, but if it did, im sorry to hear it. thats terrible.

This has happened to me. It's how I lost my virginity. It's not necessarily rape. I feel sorry for any poor guy who's wasted with a chick and has consensual sex with her and then she cries rape if she doesn't remember saying yes. If you didn't consent then it's terrible but if you did and just don't remember, that's life

If this is true, it must have been a horrible joke. They probably drew that while she was unconscious, which would mean, if something DID happen, it was rape. Let's hope it was only a prank and they left it at that...

She was not necessarily raped, most women after having a few, their libido goes up and they'll sleep with anyone, even if they don't remember later (or regret what they did later). Plus, just because an arrow was drawn on her doesn't mean her hymen isn't intact. Take a mirror or insert a finger and see. A hymen that hasn't been torn is a little bit obvious in appearance. And I still don't understand why women think their virginity is something so holey or valuable...the first time usually sucks because you're so young neither of you know what the hell you are doing, at least with the young ages people are fucking these days. Plus it depends on whether the guy is any good or not. It isn't something that has to be perfect, and you have to be in love, and it has to be the right time, and the right place. All that is "perfect world" fantasy thinking and it doesn't happen. Some of the best sex you'll ever have is totally unexpected, with a person you didn't expect to have it with, and it usually takes a dozen times before you REALLY know the other persons body and they know yours, and what and how both of you like it. Just because someone looks hot across the room, doesn't mean they look good undressed, or knows what they are doing in bed.

Exactly, the last comment sounds like the only mature intelligent person on here. Kudos!! The rest of you are obviously naive, no stupid teens or 20 year-olds that think you know all about love-making, but no, sorry, you may be sluts, but that doesn't mean you're good. She may have been stripped naked and fondled, but assuming she was raped is a little premature. Hell, she may've gotten fucked, and the person who did it may have it on video with her completely consenting. Yes, you can consent when drunk. Just like it isn't overlooked because you're drunk when you rob someone or drive drunk. Consent is consent. Drunk or not, yes means yes. For some people it takes being drunk before they let their hair down and get wild and lose inhibitions. And the automatic assumption of "roofies", lol. Obviously none of you are real drinkers, or you all have been using way too many drugs or pills. You can drink to the point of driving yourself home and the next day not remember what you did and how the hell you got home.

This post is ignorant of the law. A woman cannot consent to sex when drunk. There is no argument on this point -- it is legal fact.

If she doesn't remember, how does she know that she didn't consent? You people obviously know nothing about court and the law, but I have a feeling you have it in your future. Because some friend tells you this is why and whatnot, don't believe them. I've been totally fucked over by friends and relatives who "KNEW" what they were talking about when giving advice, but turns out they didn't know shit.

That sucks for her. Poor girl.

#50 I've been raped and I'm a freak in bed. It's different with rough sex cause you're the one controlling it. If you say stop then the person your with will stop

to the lad who posted his comment a million times.. if she was drunk proper shit faced and said yea i want u to f.u.c.k me how is it rape?? and if ya got raped would ya post it on a site like this??

LET'S GO TO THE VIDEO!!!!!!!

not funny, rape